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CHAPTER X
MOVING TO NORFOLK--TURNED OUT OF DOORS BY A BROTHER IN THE CHURCH--THE DEATH OF OUR BABE--LIVING IN THE HOUSE WITH A BAD FAMILY--THE GRASSHOPPERS AGAIN--THE FUEL WE BURNED--DRAWING WOOD BY HAND-OUR PRESIDING ELDER GOES EAST AND SOLICITS AID FOR THE PEOPLE--OUR WORK IN THE HARVEST-FIELD--I GO TO
CONFERENCE--ORDAINED ELDER--RETURN TO NORFOLK--OUR EXPERIENCE ON THE CHARGE THE SECOND YEAR.AS THERE were no railroads running through this country to Norfolk, our new field of labor, we hired a brother to take our goods through with a team, and I took my wife and children in the buggy. Before starting to our new field, our presiding elder instructed us to go to a Brother G., about two miles from the town where we were to make our home. Here, he said, we would find a Methodist home, where we could stay until ready to go to keeping house. With Mrs. Wells in poor health and a sick babe, we traveled three days through the mud and cold, hoping to find a welcome when at our journey's end. On reaching Norfolk late in the
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afternoon, we met a local preacher, who kindly directed us to Brother G.'s house, which the presiding elder had recommended to us as a home until our goods should arrive. Late in the evening, cold and hungry and with a sick child, we called at Brother G.'s, made ourselves known, and were very coolly invited into the house. On first arriving, we found that Brother G. was not at home, and thought, perhaps, when he arrived, our reception would be different. He soon came home from his work, but, instead of bringing sunshine with him, the clouds were thicker and blacker than ever. He gave us no encouragement whatever, but by his actions made us understand that we were not welcome, even to the circuit, much less to his home. The meal being ready, we were invited to the dining room, where we ate our supper alone. After we were done, and had left the room, the family sat down and ate. We consoled ourselves somewhat by the thought that, in the morning, it would be different; but in the morning we sat down to breakfast alone, and the family ate theirs, as before. This was not done because of the want of room or the need of dishes, for
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they had an abundance of both; but it was done to make it appear that we were a great burden on their hands. The lady of the house claimed to be unwell, and not able to do the work. Mrs. Wells offered to help about the housework; but the good sister, by her actions, gave her to understand that she did n't want any of her help. Though Brother G. was looked upon as one of the leading Methodists of that country, he gave no word of encouragement regarding the work, and said, "There is no house where you can live; neither is there any chance for a support on the charge." Though young in the ministry, I had gone through too many rough places to be backed down in this way. But for my wife and children, I should have gone to a barn or haystack and slept, rather than staid over night where I was not welcome. I did just such a thing as that when a boy. One time father was holding a series of meetings in a little town about twelve miles from home, which my brothers and I were allowed to attend. On going home with a family to spend the night, I felt that we were not welcome, and determined not to stay. So I took my hat, and went to the
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barn, climbed on top of a hay-shed in the open air, and rested there until morning. I would rather do the same now than stay where I am not wanted. We had passed through too many hardships to feel we could not live where others were doing well. If we could do no better, we could make our home in a tent. But I believed there would be a way provided.
Soon after breakfast we drove to town to search for a house to live in, and to look after our goods, which we expected that day. Hearing of a young lawyer by the name of Robertson, who was a Methodist, we hunted him up, introduced ourselves, and told him what we wanted. He seemed to be very glad to see us, gave us a very warm reception, and said, "Yes, we will find you a house." In less than half an hour he came to us with the information that he had found a house into which we could move at any time. Not knowing how coolly we were treated at G.'s, he advised us to go back there and stay until our goods should arrive. As apparently we were not wanted, to return and stay another night was a hard pill to take; but as we had no money to spend at the hotel, and
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our babe was sick, we felt it was the only thing to be done at the time. Besides, we had left some of our things at Brother G.'s, which required us to go there anyhow. On our way back, we met Mrs. G., wading through the mud toward a neighbor's, and she informed us that we would find our things on the porch. On telling her that our goods had not come, and we did not know where to go, she said, "I am not able to wait on you any longer." She was footing it away from home to get rid of us, working much harder than she need have done for us at home. Going to the house, we found our goods on the porch, and the doors locked as against a thief. Previous to this we had thought it possible that this unkindness was only imaginary on our part, but now there was no mistake. They did n't want us, and had turned us out of doors.
The reader may know something of our feelings when he reflects that we were among strangers, with but little money, a very sick child, and no shelter from the night air. Surely this was one of the greatest trials of my life. If an enemy had thus turned us from his house,
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we could have endured it much better; but it was one who should have been our best friend. If I mistake not, this brother was a steward in the Methodist Church at the time.
Notwithstanding the great annoyance, we laughed over our predicament, and returned to the town, where we met a good local brother, who lived five or six miles in the country. After telling him how the presiding elder had directed us to Brother G.'s, and how we had been treated by Brother G., he sent us to his home, and there we were received right royally. This brother's name is John Allberry, a local preacher, whom we shall ever hold in grateful remembrance for his kindness. Brother Allberry was a poor man, but had a large heart. Though he lived in a small house, he made us feel at home and far more comfortable than if he had possessed all the needed room and conveniences, without a good, warm welcome. After getting my family under shelter, appointments were made for Sunday preaching. The morning appointment was at the Cunningham Schoolhouse, where I found friends by the score. Brother Cunningham was a well-to-do
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farmer, though not a Church member at the time. He took great interest in our welfare, perhaps for the sake of his wife, who was one of the leading Methodists of that community, and who always delighted to make the preacher and his family feel at home in her house.
Before our first Sunday on the charge the news of Brother G.'s reception of the pastor and his family had spread throughout the country, and every Methodist home was consequently now thrown open to us. The people, Church members and all, were so indignant that they made Brother G. wish he was somewhere else. The poor fellow lost friends on all sides, withdrew from the Church, and soon after died. We shall leave hint in the hands of a just God, hoping that he repented of his stinginess, and is in heaven. Although we had such a cool reception at first, we never anywhere have met with warmer friends than on that circuit.
After a few days' waiting, our goods came, and we were keeping house on our new field of labor. Our ill-treatment made for us many friends, and perhaps gave us access to the hearts of the people as nothing else could have done.
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We moved into the rooms of an old hotel building, which was rusty, dirty, and cold. We could endure this, when supplied with fuel for the fire and something to eat. In knocking around from place to place in the cold, damp weather, our sick babe continued to grow worse, and in one short week after settling in Norfolk he died. Again we were smitten with sorrow. Here we were, far from home, among entire strangers, and our little child torn from our bosoms. But this new and deep affliction called around us many friends, who ministered to us in our sorrow, and buried our little one on the hillside in the Norfolk Cemetery, where its little form still lies, and where our parental hearts often go to weep. After making the acquaintance of the people on the entire charge, we were well pleased with our circuit. I was the first traveling preacher sent to that charge by the Conference, though Brother Beels, a local preacher, had served it the previous year. So, you see, we were still paving the way for some one else. This year, for several reasons, Mrs. Wells usually accompanied me to my appointments. She was among
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strangers, and would be lonesome if left at home. Then, the house was very cold, with unpleasant surroundings, especially on Sundays, when she would have only the company of our little daughter. A German family lived in one room of the house we occupied, and on Sundays the Germans would gather there for a good time. Sometimes they would spend much of the day in quarreling and fussing with each other; at other times they would have a general jollification all day long. Not unfrequently, when we were from home, the woman in the neighboring room would ransack our premises from top to bottom, and take what she dared, and conceal it. This we knew to be true; for we found missing things in her possession, which she could not deny having taken. And the man who lived in the house, our neighbor, was accommodating enough to help use both our wood and hay.
These little incidents are mentioned that the reader may better understand the trials experienced by an itinerant and his wife. There are people who say, "What a fine time preachers have in this world!" I hope the people who
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say this may be so fortunate as to read the contents of this little book; not because it is a wonderful production, but because of the plain, simple facts it gives in regard to the frontier work of the ministry. True, there are many blessed things in connection with the work of the ministry. If there were no sunshine, no pastor would be able to endure the burdens imposed upon him.
When we were taking leave of the people at Red Cloud, a Baptist lady said to me: "I envy you Methodist preachers in one thing: you go to so many places, and make so many friends;" to which I replied, "Yes, and so many enemies, too." Preachers get the bitter with the sweet. Of course, my experience is not the experience of all preachers. As with other occupations, some have smooth sailing, and others have a rough time all the way through. Besides, I am not giving the bright side, but attempting to picture the dark side, of a minister's life on the frontier.
This year we had another very dry season, resulting in light crops, on which the grasshoppers came down by multiplied millions.
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Great destitution and suffering followed, and it was hard for the preacher to obtain support. The grasshoppers came in such swarms that they looked in the distance like fast-gathering rain clouds flying through the air. In some places on the fields of grain they were so numerous that the grain was completely hid from sight. If they had kept still, a man with a scoop shovel could have filled a common wagon-bed with them in a few minutes. For a number of years it seemed to be our lot to meet with the grasshoppers, which would take meat, bread, and other things from our table.
The fall season passed off pleasantly and quietly, and we enjoyed our work. The trials we passed through at the outset better prepared us for others that might follow. We had four regular appointments, with preaching at each every two weeks. Winter set in early, and was long and severe, which caused us considerable suffering. I say suffering; for we did suffer from the cold. We did a great deal of traveling in the bitter weather; but this we didn't mind so much as having to suffer from the cold
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when at home. Our house was an unfinished frame building, and exceedingly airy. Besides a house exposed to the winds, we had the poorest of fuel. There being no coal in the country, we burned such wood as the brethren could bring to us, principally green cottonwood. Whoever has tried burning green cottonwood for winter fuel will know how we fared during the severe weather. The only way we could keep fire at all in the coldest weather was by having a good supply in the house, and, while a part was burning, the rest would be thawing and drying. In this way, by continually crowding the stove with wood, we managed to avoid freezing. Sometimes during the severest weather our woodpile gave out, and I would have to replenish it with my own hands. About a half mile up the river there was a large plum thicket, with many dead bushes. When we were out of wood, I took a long rope and my ax, went to this place, cut down dead plum-bushes, piled them on the ice in the river, tied the rope about them, and dragged them on the ice to the house, which was only a few rods from the
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river. In this way I could draw an immense pile of brush, especially when the ice was smooth.
Here let me say to the reader that, during all this time, we had a home to which we could have gone and made a comfortable living. But we thought that duty called us from home and friends, and so we went. I have been wonderfully astonished at seemingly intelligent people's questions in regard to our living and making money; such as the following: "Can't you make a better living on your farm than you can by preaching?" As a matter of course we could, if a living was the only consideration. How little many Christian people realize what a call to the ministry means! I certainly would never have preached if I had not felt, "Woe is me if I preach not the gospel."
The crops having been destroyed by drouth and grasshoppers during the summer, it seemed almost impossible that many of the people could get through the winter. Taking into consideration the condition of the preachers and Church on the frontier work, our presiding elder went East, and solicited money, goods, and provisions
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for the people, and especially for the preachers' families. Had he not done so, we should have seen much harder times, or been compelled to abandon our work. Goods were shipped to me, to use whatever was needed for my family, and the rest was to be given to the most needy around us. In this way many were helped through the winter. The preachers throughout our Western country were helped in this way, and it was made possible for them to remain on their work.
After passing through all this, and seeing how wonderfully the Lord had sustained us, we can realize the force and truthfulness of the promise, "Lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world." I feel sure that when a minister goes to his work and does his duty, the Lord will provide for his needs, though he may have a very difficult charge. If the Lord has not promised the minister much of this world, he sometimes gives it to him. As he has not promised ease in Zion, let us not be discouraged if we do not find it.
We received financial aid in another way while on this charge. I drove a four-horse team
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nearly through one harvesting of small grain. The Lord, in thus giving me something to do at which I could earn a few dollars, helped me to provide for my family. Some may think it disgraceful for a minister to work in the harvest-field, but I enjoyed it, and felt it quite an honor to be able to do so much for myself. Want did not compel me to go to work in the harvest-field, but we had a scanty supply, and I thought this would help fill our larder and do no harm further than taking me from my studies. I have always told the brethren that I had good, strong, and willing hands, and, if need be, could make my living by manual labor. The good Lord, however, has always provided a way, and I have never been compelled to leave the ministry in order to make a living, though, at times my family has had scanty rations and but little of the luxuries of life. Many times, during this Conference year, we have sat down to the table with only bread and coffee for breakfast; at other times our meal consisted of bread and butter alone, without tea, coffee, or sugar. At the beginning of my ministry I adopted the rule of not going in debt for any
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thing when it could be avoided. Because of this rule, we were sometimes for weeks without sugar in the house, excepting a little Mrs. Wells laid by in case of sickness or other emergencies.
During the winter of this Conference year we had some good revival-meetings, and many were taken into the Church. The Lord blessed the entire charge, and gave us many souls for our hire. Blessed be the name of the Lord! In all my ministerial work, to this time, I had not preached in a Methodist church since joining the Conference, and had been inside of none excepting at Conference. My work had been in private dwellings and schoolhouses, or in borrowed churches. At Lyons we occupied the Presbyterian church, and at Norfolk the Congregational church. These things are not told complainingly, but only to show the real work of my life. I suppose I am best adapted to border work, and, if so, there is where I ought to be.
Some time during the year another appointment was made at a little town called Pierce, in Pierce County. Mine was the first Method-
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ist preaching, and probably the first preaching of any kind, in this little town.
At the opening of spring we moved into a house on a farm, a short distance from town, where we had much better accommodation than in the old tenement-house.
Conference is at hand, and I am to preach my last sermon, and go.
At my last meeting in Norfolk before Conference, many of the citizens turned out to hear me, as we all thought, possibly for the last time. At the appointed time I announced this text, from which I tried to preach, "The Lord is a Spirit." After hammering at and wrestling with it for about thirty minutes, I sat down completely chagrined and wonderfully mortified. I felt really ashamed of having so bored the people. The next day a steward went about the town, trying to make up my salary, and called on one of the merchants for this purpose. The merchant asked how much he wanted. The steward answered, "As much as I can get." The merchant said, "Well, I'll give you five dollars; for the last sermon Mr. Wells preached is worth that much to me." Had there been
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any chance for thinking so, I would have thought he was making light of my sermon; but I could not doubt his sincerity. After this I concluded that, though I did not please myself in trying to preach, still the people might be pleased; also, that I could not always tell when I was interesting the congregation. Perhaps the merchant was the only one interested or benefited at all by my discourse; but if it did good even to one, it was a success. I find that almost any kind of a sermon will interest some one in a congregation. After years of experience in addressing audiences, one can usually tell whether he is interesting a congregation or not. When a speaker sees that his hearers are interested, it is an inspiration to him, and it is much easier to speak to them than to a heedless audience.
Off again to Conference, which meets this year at Lincoln. There being no railroad from here to Lincoln, we must drive through with our ponies. In company with other ministers, we journeyed toward the seat of Conference. After traveling until nearly sundown, we began to inquire for a lodging-place for the night. The
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first man whom we addressed said he could not keep us, but his neighbor, a little farther on, could. Going to that neighbor, he said he could not keep us, but his next neighbor, a little farther on, could. Calling at the next house, we were told the same thing, By this time night was upon us, and we were traveling in the dark. Coming to another house, we drove up to the yard, and asked the man if he could keep us over night. He said, "Well, no; I can't keep you to-night." Notwithstanding we were preachers, we by this time had become quite mischievous over our many failures; for the thing indeed was laughable as well as ridiculous. One of the brethren who was a good-natured fellow, and full of fun, said to this man, "We have been looking for a place to stay over night for several miles back, and every one has turned us off, and now, if somebody do n't look out, he is going to get a licking." Going a short distance farther, we called at a widow's house, where we found a home for the night.
The next day we drove until long after night, that we might be at the opening of Conference, and answer to roll-call. Here I reported
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thirty-three members in full connection and two hundred dollars on salary. I presume that fifty dollars would cover what I received in cash this year, as I took nearly all my salary in trade of some kind. I remember one man's giving me potatoes. He said: "Come down, and get some potatoes. You might just as well have them as not; for if you don't get them, I shall feed them to the hogs." Those potatoes came handy to us; but if he could have sold them for the money or used them himself, we would have got none of them. Just so with even certain Church members: that which they can neither use themselves nor sell, and which they do n't care to feed to the hogs, they give to the Lord, if his poor servants will come and gather it. But such contributions are often welcome to the frontier preacher; he is glad to get them. Some of our people are like the Dutchman who, when asked how he managed to make money so fast, replied: "We work hard and raise all we can; and what we can, we sell; and what we can't sell, we feed to the hogs; and what the hogs won't eat, we eat ourselves." Some Church members sell what they can, and what they
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can't sell they eat, and what they can't eat they give to the preacher. I am glad to say that we have few such men in our Church; for our people are a sacrificing class of Christians, many of them doing even more than the Lord requires.
This year we had a long siege at Conference. One of the brethren was accused of certain irregularities, and arraigned for trial, and I was appointed on the committee to try the case. The case was brought before the committee at the beginning of the Conference, and continued several days and nights. At the close of the trial we sat all night long. A little after sun-up the case was turned over into our hands, and we closed for breakfast. 0 how sad to have a brother minister accused of crime and arraigned before the Conference! I wish there might be some way to bring the accuser to justice when the accused is found innocent!
At Lincoln, on the nineteenth day of September, 1875, I was ordained elder by Bishop Gilbert Haven, who has long since quit the field and gone home to rest from his labors. Now I am a full-fledged Methodist preacher. When
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the appointments were announced, I was returned to Norfolk to serve another year.
This year was not so full of trials and afflictions as the previous one, though we had rough times and plenty of hard work. Having to move into another house, we rented one still farther in the country, and our home now was a country home. Here we spent the winter in a little house not more than twelve by fourteen feet in size, and one story high. Though the house was small, we were quite comfortable, and enjoyed ourselves very well. The circuit had grown more in size than in numbers, making an unwieldy work on our hands. An additional burden was imposed upon us by the removal of a local preacher who had supplied an adjoining circuit, and my being put in charge of his work. I had now the oversight of two large circuits, which I could manage only by employing the local preachers to help me out. In this way we gave each point preaching every two weeks, though there were nine appointments on the two circuits.
After the presiding elder had removed the
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brother from the Madison Charge, and placed it in my care, we removed to Madison, because there was a parsonage at that place, which, though small, was better than living in a rented house. This was our fourth move in less than two years. In moving into all kinds of houses we find all kinds of insects that prey upon human blood. One house we found as nearly alive with bugs as a house could be, and not walk off. Soon after going to bed the first night, the bugs sallied out upon us by the hundreds, as if we were sent there on purpose to feed them. Wife and I heroically defended ourselves and child from the invaders by killing them as fast as they charged upon us, not allowing too many to get hold of us at once; for they acted as if they intended to carry us to their hiding-place for future use. After killing the first squad that came out of ambush, we began to count as fast as we destroyed them, and by actual count we killed more than two hundred, besides the many we had deprived of life before beginning to count. Some people have a great dread of certain kinds of bugs, especially such as creep into houses and get into bed with them; but if they were as
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well acquainted with these innocent little creatures as are the frontier preachers of the Western country, they would know that their bite is not always fatal, though sometimes they do cause considerable suffering.
While Mrs. Wells, our little daughter, and I were crossing the State of Nebraska on our way to our circuit in the northern part of the State, we called at a sod farmhouse to stay overnight. Being made welcome, we went in and found everything as neat and clean as could be in any house of the kind. That evening the lady had just finished house-cleaning, and everything seemed to be in order. Wife and I were given a clean bed; so we took our little girl, and retired. The weather was exceedingly warm, and soon after going to bed the child began to fret, and said, "Mamma, the mosquitos bite me so." Within a few minutes we felt them lighting on our faces, but not with the smell of a mosquito. They continued to come faster and faster, until we were rolling, scratching, and pounding in self-defense. We spent a night of wakefulness and continual warfare, but came off victorious, though not without great loss of blood. Look-
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ing over the battle-ground the next morning, we found it stained with the blood of many slain. Our hostess was a nice and tidy housekeeper; but, as her house-roof was made of poles, hay, sorghum stalks, and dirt, it was a splendid rendezvous for bugs. There they could live in safety during the day, and at night sally forth on a foraging expedition, drop from the roof into the face of the unsuspecting victim, fill themselves, and return to their quarters in the roof. The only possible way to drive them from their barracks in such a place is to burn roof and all. Now, do n't think that Nebraska preachers have seen no bugs! The frontier preachers of Nebraska are used to Indians, buffaloes, elk, deer, antelopes, turkeys, prairie-dogs, grasshoppers, bedbugs, fleas, and sod-houses.
This year we made a trip to Fairbury, to visit our folks, driving all the way there and back with our ponies. While returning to our charge, it rained most of the time. One day we traveled all day long through the rain in an open buggy. The reader may ask, "Why travel all day in the rain?" Because the frontier preachers have no money to pay hotel bills, or to spend anywhere
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in lying over for the rain to cease. There is no class of professional men that is not better paid for their work than the average preacher. True, some ministers have large salaries, and live on the best of the land; but they are the exception.
This year we went through the regular routine of work on the charge, having a very good year, but no great revival demonstration. The people in Madison made it quite pleasant for us while among them. Though we are not writing of the bright side of our life, yet, with much pleasure, I remember one incident of our happy experience while serving the Madison and Norfolk Circuits, which I must relate. One beautiful day in the summer season, about thirty of the citizens procured a large tent, and went on an excursion to the "Yellow Banks," on the Elkhorn River, about fifteen miles away. Here we pleasantly spent two days and nights in a general picnic, with fishing. We sang, delivered speeches, and made the woods ring with our laughter. In the afternoon of the second day we returned home, every one refreshed and feeling better for having laid aside home cares for even so short a time.
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This Conference year passed off very pleasantly, and with but little worth mentioning in this sketch.
Conference-time is again at hand, and we must be off to Falls City. On our way to the seat of Conference we went by the way of Blue Springs. In this little town, fourteen years ago, I preached my first sermon in Nebraska, and the second one of my life, and here I was licensed as a local preacher. The town was changed, and many of the old settlers had gone; but there were a few faces that I yet recognized. During the night I was taken quite unwell, and remained so all the next day. Riding all day in the hot sun made me still worse. At night I called at the home of the Rev. I. M. Adair, then pastor at Table Rock, whose good wife took my case in hand, brought me through, and I felt quite well the next morning. After breakfast, Brother Adair and I drove to the seat of the Conference, and answered to roll-call. This year I reported one hundred and three members for the Norfolk and Madison Circuits, and received one hundred and thirty dollars on salary. The grasshoppers had taken a greater portion of my salary claim
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and eaten it up, so we had to be satisfied with what they left. Spiritually and socially this had been a very pleasant year, but, financially, among the hardest in all my ministry; for now I had a family to support, and needed more than when alone.
When the appointments were announced, my name was called for Oakdale, which is upon the Elkhorn Valley, in Antelope County, still farther west than my previous appointment. Returning home, trusty persons were hired to remove our goods, and, with our ponies, we rode away in quest of our new field of labor.
One bright, beautiful spring morning my presiding elder, J. B. Maxfield, and I went to look after Methodist families, thinking to establish a new preaching-point. Knowing of a county superintendent who was a Methodist and living in the community, we directed our course to his house, expecting to take dinner with him. Reaching the place, we drove into the yard, and then entered the house, and introduced ourselves to the superintendent's wife, who received us kindly, but with great embarrassment. The house we had entered was partly dug in the
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ground and partly built of sod, with a dirt roof and floor, the wife wearing hardly enough clothing to hide her shame, and her children running about the room, some of them almost stark naked. Dinner was begun, and some of the children hurried off to the neighbors to borrow dishes; for, from appearances, there was not an earthen plate or teacup in the house. Going out to the haystack, we lay there until called for dinner. If I ever pitied a woman, I did this one; for she was a handsome, intelligent, and noble Christian lady, but was completely crushed with poverty and neglect. How inhuman some men are, who claim to be husbands and Christians.
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