cheerful in his contributions for
the support of the Gospel. As an Elder and church
officer he was and diligent, cautious in forming a
judgment, but his opinion when formed was the result
of careful consideration. Good will was in his heart,
and ever found expression in his words and acts of
kindly helpfulness. He was a man of sterling worth and
uncompromising fidelity to principle. In the
simplicity of his manner there was a grandeur and
strength of character not to be mistaken, and in the
broad and generous sympathies of his heart there was
that true sincerity that crowns the greatness of
Christian manhood. He was a faithful, fond, loving and
tender husband; a good, kind, consistent, indulgent
and affectionate father. He was never absorbed with
worldly affairs. He was always intent on the life of
the mind and of the heart for himself and his family.
He spared no pains in the training of his children,
and was earnest in the cultivation of piety in his
family. He lived to see a large, prosperous and
enterprising town grow, aided by his own work, where
had been dense woods and a wilderness; fruitful fields
and prosperous villages where naught but the bare
prairies were to be seen when he came to the then
infant Territory. In his old age he could not boast of
worldly success, but enjoyed a moderate competence,
and he gathered around his Thanksgiving table nearly a
score of children and grandchildren, who looked up to
him with reverence and affection. By all who knew him,
but especially by the inner circle of his own home,
will he be ever remembered as a man of unswerving
trust, inflexible integrity, of unflinching fidelity
in all life's relations, and of tender, ever-deepening
affections. No richer heritage could any parent
bequeath to a child than the memory of such a
character.
As a Christian Mr. McMechan was
deeply attached to and interested in the welfare of
the church of his choice, devoted, calmest, zealous
and faithful, and his religions life was not one of
ostentatious profession, but of humility and quiet
piety. He made the Bible a study, and could recite
whole chapters, which he had committed to memory in
his youth. His love for the Psalms was peculiarly
strong, and he had memorized the entire metrical
version, as sung in the United Presbyterian Church,
and taught them to his children. Of his life and its
successes let it be written: "Mark the perfect man,
and behold the upright, for the end of that man is
peace." When his evening came the clouds in his sky
were golden. The setting sun of life lighted them up
with a radiance that heralded a blessed
immortality.
Mrs. Matilda McMechan, relict of
John McMechan, died Feb. 5, 1886, from the effect of a
fall consequent to paralysis, at "Headwood," the
family residence in Otoe County, near Nebraska City,
aged seventy-eight years, ten months and twenty-three
days. She was the eldest daughter of David Ballentine,
and a direct descendant of Lord John Ballentine; she
was born March 12,1807, at "Headwood," the family
estate near Belfast, Ireland. In 1814 the family came
to the United States and settled in Ogdensburg, N. Y.,
where she and her only sister, Agnes (Nancy), and her
four brothers, William, John, Henry and David, the two
latter twins, were educated. When she was seventeen
years of age the family removed to Zanesville, Ohio,
and there, when eighteen years old, she united with
the United Presbyterian Church. She was united in
marriage with John McMechan, April 24, 1827, at
Zanesville.
The family moved to the West in
1842, living at Glasgow, Mo., until 1846, then removed
to St. Louis, living there until 1853, and in the
autumn of that year moved to Council Bluffs, Iowa, and
in October, 1854, they came to Nebraska Territory,
settling in Kearney City, which Mr. McMechan laid out,
and which is to-day part of Nebraska City. Mrs.
McMechan had ten children, six sons and four
daughters. Of these, two walked before her through the
valley of the shadow of death; John and Rachel died in
infancy. The eight living are: Mary Jane, now Mrs.
Alexander E. McCormett, in New Orleans, La.; Annie
Clarke, residing at "Headwood," the family residence;
David Ballentine, in Kansas City, Mo.; John Henry.
living at "Headwood," the family residence; Andrew
Charles, Lieutenant U. S. N.; Matilda, Mrs. S. H.
Calhoun, in Nebraska City, Neb.; William Ballentine
and Edwin Ethridge, in Kansas City, Mo. Two of her
brothers survive her: William Ballentine, of Kansas
City, Mo., and Henry Ballentine, of Mariposa County,
Cal. David Mc-
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