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A GARLAND FOR ASHES "The Spirit of the Lord Jehovah is upon me; because Jehovah hath anointed me to preach good tidings unto the meek; he hath sent me to bind up the broken-hearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and opening of the prison to them that are bound; to proclaim the year of Jehovah's favor, and the day of vengeance of our God; to comfort all that mourn; to appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give them a garland for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they may be called the trees of righteousness, the planting of Jehovah, that he may be glorified."
--ISAIAH 61:1-3.
"But a certain Samaritan, as he journeyed, came where he was; and when he saw him, he was moved with compassion, and came to him, and bound up his wounds, pouring on them oil and wine; and he set him on his own beast, and brought him to an inn, and took care of him."
--LUKE 10:33-34
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A Garland for Ashes
The wonder of the Bethphage Mission on the prairies of Nebraska is not alone in the unusual way in which God has provided a colony of homes for those in bonds of incurable diseases. There is that which thrills the Christian bystander even more; it is the fact that the guests in the homes for the afflicted have been the recipients of the grace of God. There have been many who have been crushed and depressed in spirit, but who have through the consecrated workers that have ministered to them come in touch with the compassionate Christ. It is that Christ, who emptied himself taking the form of a servant and went about doing good. It was He who saw the multitudes that were scattered abroad as sheep without a shepherd; but he also saw the hungry, the poor, the blind, the leper, the paralytic, and the epileptic and was moved with compassion for them. The indwelling Christ is still the same, as he shines forth in those who minister to these unfortunates.
It is when the guests come into contact with and realize this spirit of sympathy and unselfish love for them that they experience that which the prophet Isaiah said should take place when the Promised Messiah had made his advent. They have received "a garland for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness."
The severe temptation that comes to the incurable and hopelessly diseased as he contemplates his sad condition is to reason: "What is the use? There is nothing to live for." From the purely human point of view, such reasoning seems altogether too true. The joy of living has gone, the life in the body has burned out, there remains but the ashes.
In the face of such a condition we stand helpless, but there is one that can even there change things and make things new. It is true that he does not come to the haunts of wretchedness and need, as he did in the days of his flesh; but he does come as the good Samaritan in those who are willing to be his hands and feet, and who reveal his heart. Many a sufferer has recognized in these servants the love of Christ. They appreciate that there are those who wish to help them bear their burdens. And because of this, they understand better why the Lord was willing to perform a far greater service, when he was wounded for their transgressions and bruised for their iniquities. Their eyes have also been opened to the glorious hope that some day all things will be changed, and that in a moment in the twinkling of an eye they will come forth with a new body. They have received a garland of joy and hope for ashes.
That our readers may better understand this joy and hope, we have tried to tell the experiences of some of the guests, who we believe have found a garland for ashes at Bethphage.
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If you were to visit the Bethphage Mission on an early spring day and wander about the grounds, you would probably find a man sitting in a wheel chair in some sunny spot enjoying the fresh air and sunshine. Being a stranger you would be rather surprised to see the physical condition of this man, for he looks as if he had fallen from some distance and that the result of the fall had left his body all out of shape.For those who have followed the story of Bethphage, it will not be surprising to hear that the person in question is none other than Cyrus, or as we have come to know him, "Cy."
Cy has a story to tell. If you will listen, the writer will try to tell that story as it has come to him from various sources. One day in the early eighties of last century two little boys were playing in a farm wagon in the little town of Niles, New York. That was nothing unusual; but one of the boys, a little lad of eight, was that day to pass through an experience which was to be the beginning of a chain of circumstances that changed his life from a natural healthy existence to that of a man who now looks back on a life that has tasted deeply of the cup of suffering and today is a helpless invalid.
The mother of those two boys did not realize that anything unusual was happening, when one of the boys fell from the wagon. If little Cyrus complained to her, she must have felt that it was just one of those little happenings that must he expected in the life of an average American boy. As the days and weeks passed she discovered that her young son was not as agile on his feet as formerly, for in his play he would stumble and fall so often. To add to the anxiety of the parents of this boy, about a year afterward he contracted the dreaded disease of spinal meningitis, that was so often fatal or at best left its victims in a crippled condition. While recuperating from this serious illness Cyrus discovered that his lower limbs would not gain strength and the only way that he could get about was with the aid of crutches.
The distracted parents sought the best doctors in New York City and were told that nothing could be done but hoped that he might outgrow his malady. It is no wonder that the thought often came to them, "What would the future have in store for a cripple?" Friends encouraged the parents and their son with the suggestion, that many have overcome such handicaps and especially if they could be trained to do things with their mind and hands. So Cyrus started out with renewed hope to get an education. With a mind that was normal he succeeded in finishing his common school education and had even started to high school at Hastings, Nebraska, where the family had moved. He was about fifteen years of age.
At this time the parents removed to another town and what happened to the subject of our story after that move is not at all clear, but that another tragedy took place we are sure, for it was shortly after this that Cyrus on a hot day was out in the yard and it was believed that he had an attack of
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what is commonly called a sunstroke. That part of his story seems to be shrouded with uncertainty - he fainted away and then followed days of severe suffering, other complications set in, he lost his speech, and he became paralyzed. The parents cared for him in their home until the mother passed away. It was at this point that Bethphage entered into his life. A brother has this to say: "My brother Fred and I heard of your wonderful place at Axtell and went there to make arrangements for Cyrus. We thank God for the good you are doing Cyrus and all the rest there."
It was in those early days at Bethphage that Cy realized more than ever his helpless condition. There he was among strangers that could not understand him. He was not able to move, if he was uncomfortable. He could not even make his wants known, for he was speechless. Life to him was only to lie and wait for nighttime when he could go to sleep and forget his troubles. It is no wonder that he was discouraged and even despondent. To him there was nothing to live for. It was at this time that he refused to eat, hoping in that way to hasten the end of it all.
But that was not to be the end. The attendants at Bethphage were to help Cy bear his burdens that seemed too heavy for him to bear. Their hearts were moved with compassion and they insisted that he should eat and live. The Sisters would come and read for him, and better still, they prayed that his darkened soul might see the light. The light came, and through the hearing of the Word of God he learned that a heavenly Father loved him so much that He had given His only begotten Son to be his Saviour. On February 23, 1930, he was baptized into Christ.
A new day had dawned for Cy. He had made a happy discovery. There was something to live for; now his thoughts could be occupied with other things than his own misery. As we see him out in the sunshine we know that he spends much of that time bringing forth the treasures he has laid up in heaven. He has learned many of the precious promises of God's Word. In his silent world he is occupied with interceding for his attendants and the cause of Bethphage. He also has the glorious hope that some day all will be changed. Then he will be able to walk on the streets of the New Jerusalem; the tongue so long silent will be able to sing with the redeemed: "Worthy is the Lamb that was slain!"
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A GARLAND FOR ASHES And Cy has other interests, too. Now he insists that he must be at all Sunday morning services when he is able. When Holy Communion is celebrated, he is there in the north aisle of the chapel waiting for the assuring words: "The body of Christ, given for thee."
As the years have gone by, his room has become almost a sanctuary, for when the workers are tired and discouraged they can go to Cy's room and tell their troubles. In him they have a father confessor that will not divulge the secrets of their hearts, and a priest who will plead their cause at the throne of grace.
By this time the reader has discovered that Cy does not speak. The workers at Bethphage will not agree to that, for they say, 'He speaks with his eyes." Cy is so rigid in body that he cannot move is head in answer to your questions, but those who know him best can tell by the blinking of his eyes what is his answer. Many stories could be told of how questioning they have learned to know his wants.
It was thus that the writer was able to have the interview that verified this story. With Sister Elizabeth as interpreter many questions were asked and gradually the story unfolded. It was during that interview that I asked Cy among other things: "Do you have any special Bible promise that you treasure?" With a warm glow his eyes turned to a wall motto, and there it was, "My grace is sufficient for thee." (2 Cor. 12:9.) There was the explanation why it was possible for this helpless man to meet his troubles with a smile.
Then we spoke of the "glorious hope" and how some day all would be changed. That was a moment that we who were present will never forget, for Cy responded in his characteristic way. There was a twinkle in his eyes and his countenance brightened. There was a sound of holy stillness. I can, however, well imagine that the angels of God that were hovering near could hear Cy say in his soul: "Amen, come, Lord Jesus."
NOTE: Cy departed to be with his Lord on January 18, 1944. This story was written the preceding year.
"Wherefore we faint not: but though our outward man is decaying, yet our inward man is renewed day by day." (2 Cor. 4:16.)As one enters Emmaus and ascends the stairs and turns to the right, glancing in at the first open door your attention will be called to a middle-aged man lying in bed. It is Carl C. He has not always been in that helpless condition. As a little boy he ran about and played just as other healthy children. He went to school and at the usual age was confirmed. This took place in the old fatherland, in the community north of Västervik.
In early childhood he lost his father through an accidental death. But he had an industrious and God-fearing-mother that gave her son the best education possible under the circumstances.
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In regard to the choice of occupation, Carl chose to be a carpenter. The mother no doubt hoped that her son would remain with her in the fatherland. But there was Viking blood running in Carl's veins and like many another youngster he had an attack of America-fever. He like Petter Jonson wanted to go to the wonderful land in the West. At the age of eighteen the cottage where he lived with his mother became too crowded and he directed his footsteps toward America. I do not know if he had the same idea of America that Selma Lagerlöf had as a child. She had observed a family board a train for the land of the West. She watched them with a feeling that approached envy. For to her America was the most wonderful land in all the world. It was the land of great possibilities. There one could find abundant riches, and surely fortune and happiness. There would be no poverty, For the leaves on the trees were of pure gold. If you were in need of money, all you had to do was to pick a few of these golden leaves. Carl did not of course expect to pick gold from the trees. It is, however, certain that in wonderful America he did expect to attain to success, independence, fortune - And now he is bedridden at Bethphage.
Carl came to America in 1921. First he stayed in Iowa two years and then he spent a year in Minnesota. Afterward he directed his footsteps to the great metropolis, Chicago. There he found employment as a cabinetmaker. Fortune seemed to smile on him. There was plenty of work and the pay was good. He seemed to coin money. Now he could build his air castles. But his life and thought were mostly concerned with earthly things. In success God was forgotten. There was no open enmity with God and His Word, but the childhood faith was dead. Occasionally he would attend church services, first one place and then another, but he did not affiliate with any congregation; neither was there any deep desire for peace with God.
It is hard to tell when the illness of Carl started. It stole upon him unawares. He believes it was in 1926 that he began to have peculiar feelings in his feet. He noticed that as he stood in the crowded street car, hanging to the straps, that his legs and feet did not serve him as usual. A casual observer seeing him at that time might have thought that he was drunk. For some time he was not concerned about this condition, but in a couple of years he began to seek medical advice. At first the doctors seemed to be puzzled as to his condition, and only sug-
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A GARLAND FOR ASHES gested that something was wrong with his nerves. At that time Carl heard of a noted nerve specialist at the Chicago University. It was he that informed him that he was afflicted with multiple sclerosis. The peculiarity of this disease is that it seems to destroy the nerves that control the muscles. It is generally known to he incurable.
You can well imagine that this diagnosis was to Carl as the sentence of a lifetime imprisonment would be to an innocent man. His hopes were crushed and his air castles were for the moment shattered into a million pieces. All his plans and dreams had come to naught. Now sickness and need stared him in the face.
Added to this came the depression of 1929 and the reduction of wages. In a couple of years he was without work. Had he been in the usual physical strength he might have found something to do, but now he was not able to do rough work.
Carl had a married brother living in Chicago and there he found a home for the time being. But his condition continued to become worse and soon he was confined to his bed. It was not pleasant to ask this favor in his brother's home, but what could he do? At this time Carl's sister-in-law had frequented the services in the Messiah Lutheran Church, where T. L. Rydbeck is the pastor. In her predicament she turned to the pastor for advice and help. Pastor Rydbeck visited Carl and seeing his sad condition decided what should be done. Here was a poor man in bonds in a strange land. Pastor Dahl in days past had often written and pleaded that it was needful to build a Christian home for suffering and helpless brethren from the homeland. To realize this goal Bethphage had been founded. Pastor Rydbeck wrote Dr. Lonnquist and within fourteen days Carl had arrived and was received into the large Bethphage family. That was in the spring of 1935.
The greater part of the time since his arrival he has spent in bed. But through the help and concern of his relatives, he has gotten a wheel chair; and since the incline has been built in Emmaus he has been able to spend some time out of doors and also go to church where he has been able to take part in the beautiful worship service of the Lord.
He enjoys to do this, for something has happened to Carl since he came to Bethphage. He is a changed man. He has settled his account with the Lord. He has come to certainty in regard to the forgiveness of sins and his sonship with God. As a poor sinner he found that Cod in His mercy has provided a Saviour that can save to the uttermost. As a consequence he sees the present and the future from a different viewpoint. The love of Christ and a living hope has thrown a new light on life and its sufferings. In spite of his bonds he can consider himself fortunate, for his heart is filled with the peace and joy of Christ.
It is to be noticed that his condition is weakened from time to time. He is now not able to write letters to his dear mother in Sweden or to his old friends and relatives in this country, but must have the help of others. He is still able to read, but has noticed more difficulty in this matter. As yet he is able to feed himself. In this condition he quietly in patience and peace awaits the time of the redemption of the body. He loves the words, "Yet a little while." Surely it is not necessary to
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mention that he feels deep gratitude to God and the friends of Bethphage for the kindness shown him while here.
And thus Carl continues to live in the refuge of those that are in bonds. Now he can unite with the apostle: "We know that if the earthly house of our tabernacle be dissolved; we have a building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens."
--G. A. Peterson
That was the expression that had been applied to George Fouts, who ended his days at the Bethphage Mission, December 1, 1941. He was disinclined to speak during the last years of his life, largely for the reason that his affliction made him that way. He was an epileptic of the "grand mal" type and as the years went by became more and more helpless.Some of our guests have a sad story back of their affliction and this was also true of George. Sister Aurora, who has been on the committee for admittance almost from the beginning of Bethphage, tells me that George was normal and active in his childhood. But one day he was out playing with the boys of his neighborhood in Oakland, California. The boys hit on the idea of playing a prank on George, but it proved to be no play matter. They put him into a manhole of the sewer system, put on the covering and left him. Of course that was a most frightening experience for the boy. George kept calling for help but none came; until hours after a man came by and heard the cry of anguish.
George was then rushed to a physician and while there had his first convulsion. For a while it seemed that nothing serious had happened but as time went on he began to have renewed attacks and the parents
George Fouts and John
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A GARLAND FOR ASHES were sad hearted to know that they had a son who was an epileptic. What could they do about it? Other doctors were consulted, but to no avail. It was when he was a lad of thirteen that Rev. N. P. Anseen, who was the Lutheran pastor in Oakland said to the mother (for the father had passed away in the meantime) that an institution for epileptics had been founded at Axtell, Nebraska. Application was duly made and George was entered at Bethphage on March 20, 1915 and according to our record book, he was guest No. 16.
He was placed in Home Nazareth, a cottage for men that was rented in the village of Axtell. Yes, were "taciturn George" able to speak he could tell the story of the early beginnings of Bethphage. During those early months and years George was still an active youngster and between his seizures used to be full of mischief and demanded watching. It was at that time that he became a member of the confirmation class and was taught the way of salvation in Christ. One day he made his vows to be faithful to the Saviour until death. It was in that faith that he ended his days on earth.
As a boy he had always been interested in trains and as he dreamed his dreams in the days of his youth, he would always see himself as the engineer of a locomotive on the western plains. That ambition remained with him and he would often tell Dr. Lonnquist that he wanted to complete his education and take up his life work. I can well imagine that it was no pleasant task to have to tell George that he would have to wait and see how his health would be. Time and an increasing number of seizures told him that it was no use to plan for the realization of his boyhood dream. Instead the attacks became more severe and six or seven years ago he was confined to his bed in our present Home Emmaus. And there during the last days of November he lost his battle for life after some thirty severe attacks.
One of the idiosyncrasies of George during the last years of his illness was the desire to be up and dressed in his Sunday best on two occasions during the year; on the Fourth of July and Christmas Eve. Having done this he was content to go hack to bed for days to come. I do not know the reason for the special interest in the first of these festive days; but I can at least imagine the reason for the second. I am told that his mother was always solicitous that George should have a Merry Christmas and would send money with instructions that her son was to have a large box of good things "from mother." Of course he got other things from the friends of Bethphage but he was always looking for the special box and when that appeared he was a happy boy again. A year ago on Christmas eve I saw him dressed as usual and sitting in his wheel chair. With others he was gathered around the Christmas tree in Emmaus. He never said a word but there was still the glow of expectancy in his eyes.
If "taciturn George" could have spoken before he left this vale of suffering and tears, what would he have said? I need not elaborate on his unspoken testimony. You who read this are the friends of Bethphage. You have helped George to bear his burdens. You ask no praise or gratitude for the helping hand that you have extended this brother in the name of our compassionate Saviour. It is enough to know that our deeds of kindness to him spoke a Gospel that he understood. May his soul rest in peace.
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